@Mark I almost didn't post this question for that very reason, I understand completely and sympathize, it must be frustrating.
But good news, I think are right about the landing gear speed limit. This thing is quick, I'm coming in for a approach slowing down with the air brake and not paying attention to the airspeed...
This has caught me out a couple of times. I think what flummoxed me was some rear/cockpit transfer issues the first time I flew, so there was a nagging doubt that I'm doing something wrong again, so I Active Pause, and try to figure out whats going on with the transfer...
Anyway, thank you! I love this jet.